Pleasure and Pain

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Entries Tagged as 'Realizations'

To gather together

January 21st, 2011 · 7 Comments · Community

I have the distinction of being the longest-running member of Manhattan’s first and foremost coworking center, New Work City. But lately I’ve been staying home on the Upper West Side every day, working at my dining table or on the couch, instead of taking the 20-minute subway ride down to TriBeCa. It’s cold and snowy [...]

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New Year’s Resolutions for 2011

January 10th, 2011 · 8 Comments · Pleasure, Strategy

New Year’s Resolutions get a bad rap, and many say they’re trite and futile. I couldn’t disagree more. Setting goals, especially challenging ones, is the best way to effectively change behavior. A resolution is a commitment to oneself, and I can’t think of a more honorable and necessary thing for a human to do than [...]

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Pleasure and Pain turns 3

January 10th, 2011 · 5 Comments · Blogging

Three years ago, I was feeling stagnant and purposeless. I wasn’t happy with the direction of my career and I didn’t know what to do about it. Without a clue what it was, I joined Twitter, and three days later I started this blog. January 10, 2008. This is a tough day for me to [...]

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The plain numbers about women in tech – The Startups

December 22nd, 2010 · 103 Comments · Community, Pain

I don’t often think of myself as a woman. As I approach public restrooms, I have to remind myself: “Whitney, you are a woman, use the women’s room.” Being a woman doesn’t actively, consciously factor into my every day life, especially not professionally. While my gender must have a partial effect on everything I do [...]

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You are in context to another

November 26th, 2010 · 2 Comments · Strategy, User Experience

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how to define your audience, how to name them. We all know that if you design for everyone, you end up designing for no one. But demarcating a group of people can be a real struggle, especially since people exhibit different behaviors in different situations — one of [...]

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